Video calls are one of the safest and easiest ways to get to know someone before meeting in person. They let you see each other face-to-face, pick up on body language, and confirm that the person you’ve been chatting with matches their photos.
Here are some simple tips to make your video calls safe, comfortable, and enjoyable.
1. Use a Trusted Platform
- Choose well-known services like Zoom, FaceTime, WhatsApp, or Google Meet.
- Avoid clicking on unknown links or downloading unfamiliar apps.
2. Protect Your Privacy
- Use only your first name during the call.
- Position your camera so personal items (like family photos or your street address) aren’t visible in the background.
- Consider using a virtual background if your platform offers it.
3. Schedule Short Calls First
- Keep the first video chat to 10–15 minutes.
- This gives you an easy exit if you don’t feel comfortable.
- If it goes well, you can always schedule a longer conversation later.
4. Test Your Tech Beforehand
- Check your camera, microphone, and internet connection.
- Make sure your lighting is bright and coming from in front of you, not behind.
5. Watch for Red Flags
- They refuse to turn on their camera.
- They use excuses for why you can’t see them clearly.
- They avoid answering simple questions about themselves.
6. Keep Personal Information Private
- Don’t give out your home address, bank details, or passwords during a video call.
- Avoid sharing your exact travel plans until you trust the person fully.
7. Trust Your Instincts
- If the conversation feels uncomfortable or pressured, it’s okay to end the call.
- You can politely say, “I think I’m going to wrap this up for now,” and log off.
💡 Tip: Treat the video call like your first meeting — dress in a way that makes you feel confident, smile, and have a few conversation topics ready so the chat flows naturally.